Peace With Honour

  is an interesting concept I've read about when it comes to dating, generally a first date should just be a basic meeting just to get to know the person- it works great for the guy and the girl, However the pressures of first or even second dates are much different so should you actually be going out somewhere and you see that either you or the girl are miserable, a new option is to retreat, just say this isn't working out too well there is no chemistry, it was really nice meeting, and I hope everything works out for you- I think the " peace with Honour" strategy is better suited than just having to watch one person who is completely miserable and with his or hers t'isha Be Av face, going through the agony of having to finish the date -everyone will feel much more better..................