"Ghosting"

         is the term, I learned from an old  Persian date of mine, where one party in a Dating Simply Disappears.  After some intense conversation That included some of my Favorite topics; Porn in particular, with a girl I've been seeing for the Third time, It was unclear weather we would be doing.....Choosing the road more traveled by these days, We both kind of  Disappeared on each other for a few days. She blinked first and messaged me That it was OK if I didn't feel the connection, Of which I said It's been a Rough week; it was. Some brief texts after and No Hurt, Harm, or Injustice on any side........ Realizing that It is Incredibly insipid to carry on Scores of conversations with a coterie of women, and trying to " figure out"when to get together, and then not following up, made me realize that Quick Fix online dating   have turned me into a worse person that I already am. I " Forget" about dates, I ignore and only to be fair also get ignored, and lost track of how many hours a week I waste playing this game....... Here is how I wish i can be more like My father. Going together to the Nets- Pelicans game with my 9 year old Nephew. He insisted it was OK for him to go under the turn style, Clearly wrong, but very funny. My Father is an Expert at getting a seat on the train, Doesn't matter if he let's people off first or squeeze into a technically Six Skinny person Bench on the train where their are five Fat ones. The Nets Were Embarrassingly bad and got blown out.........