compatibility is probably

the biggest BS word used as to why relationships don't get a chance to form. I know this because That Excuse has been used on me, and in turn i learned to use it as well. After a first date they would ask "why wouldn't you go out with her again" - and the general answer is I don't think we were compatible- I definite think its a cop out answer but also is considerate of the other persons feeling. What the hell does compatibility mean anyways, and how do you know?  I think dates can go great, but with out psychical attraction the compatibility excuse comes in handy.............On My last night in Israel last week I was " set up " with this girl who was Russian but was now living in Israel- I am extremely open minded i didn't think anything will come of it but what the hell is my attitude- We sat in the hotel lounge( in what seemed like a Hareedy date) I thought she was ultra orthodox and she thought i was, and were joined by my brother who seemed to take a keen interest in the situation( i think i figured it out later on as to why) My sister in law was also there as well- We joked they were the supervisors, We exchanged Phone numbers i left her my FB and Email - gave her an air handshake as a joke - Then left to the airport, I actually think I'd call her but i forgot her name.....................................